[57_maintenance] Update version to 57.3.0, add changelog (#9333)

# Which issue does this PR close?

- part of #9240

# Rationale for this change

Keep the code flowing

# What changes are included in this PR?

1. Update version
2. Update CHANGELOG. Rendered version
https://github.com/alamb/arrow-rs/blob/alamb/prepare_57.3.0/CHANGELOG.md

# Are these changes tested?

By CI 

# Are there any user-facing changes?

New version

Author: alamb